Easy is not EASY

Playing on survival bedrock with some of my friends and we have noticed the mobs are not easy whatsoever; the mobs are way too aggresive. There are way too many spawning at once, such as two people entering the nether for the first time ever in the game and being greeted with 6 ghasts blowing them up as soon as they entered. It seems skeletons have autoaima dn super fast shooting speeds, ghasts start spawning and dont stop the milisecond the nether is loaded. Mobs spawn in way too high of numbers to even make the game enjoyable. It also sucks when you die in the nether just below your portal but can't get to your stuff because of the sheer amount of mobs in the area (ask me I know.) so it ends up despawning. I dont want to play in peaceful because i enjoy the survial aspects of the game but it can't be enjoyed while being slaughted by an army of 30,000 zombies that spwned three blocks away from me in a cave.