Bedrock pvp/servers

The pvp on Bedrock is absurd it's just messed up the hit boxes are messed up its laggy swords have wayyyy to much knockback unregistered hits it's just depressing at this point even when we try to join different servers we aren't allowed to add new servers like Java with a click of a button, why do we have to be limited to the hive or cube craft or whatever/fix the issue for console players especially the pvp the clients are messed up its just everything about pvp is miserable