Easier to play with friends on Java Edition/Make playing with Mods Easier

I always want to play with friends, especially on Java (with mods). However, its not clear or intuitive on how to do that. I often rely on alternative methods, like Aternos or the Essential mod. So, I propose you make a system just like on bedrock edition, so I may play with my friends more easily. Another big problem I face when  playing is how to install or play mods. It's not clear Mojang. I ask you kindly to facilitate my experience with my friends and other's experiences, so that I play your game more and you gain more recognition and support from others. Anyone who is reading this, please upvote my message, and we may have the opportunity to make Minecraft better than it already is!

With my regards

Arthur