Better multiplayer for Java

It's unfair how bedrock players have a simpler and easier multiplayer system, and us java players have to buy a realm or make a server(which by the way takes too long to even figure out how to do). Java should have the same, if not, a similar multiplayer system. Also, it wouldn't take away from minecraft realms because you could make it so that on realms you can add more friends and they can play when the owner is offline. Plus, it would get you a TON of new players. Especially since many players left minecraft because of the multiplayer system. If you fixed this, it would be a win for everybody. Please think about it.