play-ability

dude you'd ought to think given y'all r rich, you'd make the game much easier to play with friends. adding people, on bedrock and java is rlly difficult, on bedrock, you don't have a request thing in game to Minecraft. inviting people to your bedrock world is incredibly hard and laggy 90% of the time. im new to java and trying to play with my friend, why's it so hard to play together? like why do I have to install MODS to play multiplayer on a game that makes so much money. It shouldnt have to be this difficult to simply play together. there's no invite button either for java. 

this is incredibly frustrating and truly exchange of words, one on one is needed given your lack of starightforwardness about the inability to play with friends. no I don't wanna buy a realm, I wanna try java out first and see if I like it, then go from there, but even then it shouldnt have to get to that point. or at least say straight up you want people to spend money to play together