bedrock realm performance laughably horrible

Minecraft realms are bad, first off render distance in realms is really bad, i get it there has to be a cap for lower end devices, but even on a middle to high end pc i can set it higher but it does not render any further, it works in servers so i don't know what is going on

second i have issues uploading and downloading worlds all the time like that should be no problem but it is and i'm not the only one with that issue, if you wait long enough it eventually it works but sometimes it takes hours

third they are occasionally very laggy to an unplayable point, i don't really have a problem with some lag here or there but sometimes its really bad

any one of these problems can be a bummer but survivable but all three makes me wonder why i'm even paying for it

just a note, in the topic it says "Realms and Dedicated Servers" i don't know if servers have these problems as i'm RARELY on servers, but as for as i know this is only the realms that is having these issues, but render distance is better on servers